As a pastor, I have spent a good deal of time visiting people in the hospital. Sometimes it’s a happy occasion – like the birth of a child. Most of the time it’s a difficult season for someone enduring moments of pain, fear and possibly death. I always find it hard to have words to say in those moments, words that don’t sound like a time-worn cliche. I want to make everything better. I want it all to just go away. I want to promise them that they will be healed – but I can’t. I’m not God. I don’t get to make these decisions. Don’t get me wrong – I have seen God heal people, spare lives and relieve suffering on many occasions. In fact, they have been some of the best moments of my life. I have also seen God allow people to remain ill and even die. How do we understand that duality?

Issues like that get to the heart of one of the most profound of human needs – safety. One of the things every person wants to know from the earliest moments of life is, “Will I be safe?” This is one of the basic needs of infants. They want to know in the vastness of their new world that someone nearby loves them and will help them when they are hungry or sick. In some ways, not a lot changes throughout life. As kids, we learn that bad things can happen to us  when we’re not careful, and sometimes when we are. As adults, we learn to do everything possible to create a safe environment for our families.

We eat healthy and exercise regularly. We try to live in safe neighborhoods and build good schools. We buy car seats, alarm systems and insurance plans. We protect ourselves with fire departments, police and the military. We save money for a rainy day. We do everything we can to be as safe as possible. And we should, because we live in a fallen, dangerous world where evil and calamity exist. Yet none of these things can really ever guarantee our safety. Where is God in this?

In  moments like this, I think it is always helpful to remember that God didn’t create the world to be this way. He made it perfect and good, a place devoid of suffering, strife or death. We actually are to blame for the entrance of evil into our world. The Bible tells us that it was when humans rebelled against God and abandoned Him as their spiritual father that things went awry. Our revolt against God created a rift, a chasm, between us and Him. As a result of that separation, evil, suffering and death became a part of our lives.

God could have chosen to distance Himself from us and ignore our pain, but He didn’t. He still loved us – even when we didn’t love Him. This is why Jesus came. He entered our world as one of us – God in human form; to die in our place and build a way back to God. For those who accept Him and His way, God promises to give us what we were created for; a place of peace and safety, a place of comfort and joy – His eternal Kingdom.

Jesus told us that we can begin to experience aspects of that Kingdom while we are still living in a fallen world. Yet, we will never experience it fully until He returns to set the world right (Revelation 21.1-4). This is our dilemma – we are created for a perfect, sinless place but we live in the fallenness of of our own making. God will make all things perfect again, but not yet.

The Bible says that we should expect that God will both deliver us in times of trouble (Psalm 34.17) and use the pain and suffering in our lives to help us change and grow (Romans 8 ). I don’t know about you, but I like the first part of that plan a lot better than the second part. But I have to admit that I have grown as much from adversity as I have from abundance.

The truth is God sees things from an eternal perspective. He realizes we will live forever and that this world is but a brief moment in that eternity. His promise of safety to us is the safety that comes from an eternal life with Him in His Kingdom. This is a miraculous certainty in the midst of the uncertain chaos of life. Beyond that, God helps those whose hearts are completely His (2 Chronicles 16.9). He heals, He delivers, He guides, He loves, He supports and He blesses. Yet, He never completely removes the influences and consequences of sin from our lives. These we must continue to endure as a reminder of our waywardness and need. God’s promise to us in this life is not to drape us in spiritual bubble wrap so nothing bad can penetrate our life, but to be there with us no matter what (Matthew 28.20). Sometimes His presence brings deliverance from evil, sometimes it brings comfort in the midst of evil.

At the end of the day, all the insurance policies, alarm systems, armies and healthy living cannot compare to God’s offer of eternal life and companionship on earth. True safety can only be found in God.

What do you fear? What fears do you struggle to commit to God?

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  1. Rick posted on October 28, 2009

    Sounds like Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs, this series is a great way to tie faith into this.

    1. Dori Ling Cooper posted on October 29, 2009

      As someone who wrestles with the pain and suffering of long-term illness, also walking alongside those I love who suffer genetically transmitted illness, God is continually shaping an eternal perspective in me. I am frequently reminded that the fragility of life is but a blink in the course of Eternity with Him. Contending with debillitating symptoms makes me extremely grateful for the most simple things in life – having a day when I don’t experience pain, being able to do basic things like shop for groceries for my family without great difficulty, or delighting in the changing fall colors. God continually teaches me that thanking Him, rejoicing in Him, and worshipping Him no matter what I experience in this life brings peace and contentment that nothing else can. The fear of suffering has me pursuing God fiercely and ferociousloy, because only in so doing, do I find safety until disaster passes. At times, the disaster takes longer than I feel I can bear, but He gives me more strength than I think I have and sustains me. “Have mercy on me, O God, have mercy on me, for in you my soul takes refuge. I will take refuge in the shadow of your wings until the disaster has passed.” — Psalm 57:1

      1. G posted on October 29, 2009

        I fear the earthly loss of my children and wife. my wife dealing with a disease that is not terminal, but can be physically and emotionally dehabilitating, i fear of her being bedridden and in total uncontrollable pain. And my kids that are adventurous, world travelers, i fear for their safety.. God has been teaching me to release them to Him, for me to just love them, and i continually learn to know how to love them. i am so thankful for the teachings here at the Chapel, showing me how to transform my life by seeking God, loving Him with all my heart, mind and soul, God is Real, He is with us and i can trust Him with my wife and kids, and I can be joyful in my circumstances (most of the time) I want to serve Him the rest of my life here as gratitude for what He is doing in my life, my wife’s life(her testimony thru pain), and my children lives as they impact the kids they serve.. Praise Him from whom all blessings flow, God is not through with me yet, as i learn to trust Him with the people i love most

        1. Scott

          Scott posted on October 29, 2009

          Your perspective is so impacting – I can’t even really imagine what your suffering is like, no matter how hard I try. I am so grateful for your openness to God and your faith in His goodness. You are a great encouragement to all who read this.

          1. Scott

            Scott posted on October 29, 2009

            I am so glad you took the time to comment. I can tell that God is very real to you. Even in your fears and struggles your faith is very beautiful.

            1. Peter posted on October 30, 2009

              Through the Chapel we heard about a foster situation. We have had the little boy with us now for 7 months. I have never experienced being a father before and there is something magical about it. However, as a foster child there is the very real possibility the child will leave us to be with his birth parent(s). I have to trust if God allows that pain, he will use it as he has used infertility in my life, to bring me closer to him.

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